ninaa
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Post by ninaa on Jul 3, 2008 8:29:41 GMT -5
Okay well I have this group of friends. I've been sitting with them since October but then in about January I moved to another table (regret!!). I started sitting with them since May and through the school year. And these 3 girls are tight. Best friends. One just moved her last september and stuff but they're all close. Here's the problem: I wanna be one of them. I wanna be best friends with them. They hang out alot and I'm here about 50% of the time. But how can i get myself to be closer to them? I want to be best friends with them too? Is there a way how? Please help me!!
I talked to them online and they told me all 3 of them were best friends and they're going to camp together this summer. And i even told one (or hinted  ) wow i wish i had best friends and they told me to think happy thoughts. Yes, we're all friends but why can't i have a closer relationship?
Ugh I really need help. Think you can help? Please respond  |
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Post by hilary on Jul 3, 2008 14:02:19 GMT -5
you could try inviting one of them to hang out with you, movies mall etc. but sometimes you can't force people to be friends with you
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Post by Tafara on Jul 3, 2008 14:15:37 GMT -5
Ok, well, I've been in the same situation. You can either a.) Just keep hanging around them and maybe within a year (probably longer, though) you'll be part of the group. or b.) find other friends that you really clique with be bff's right away. See, I chose B (I was in 7th grade) and now I'm extremely comfortable with my "bffs" and knowing that I have real, good friends makes me very confident in myself. I may not be on top of the world... lol, but I sure do feel like it  Hope you find what works for you. =D |
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ninaa
Tinkerbell
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Post by ninaa on Jul 3, 2008 15:02:22 GMT -5
hey guys
thanks for the advice
they all went to the mall together
today (as said on their away message)
and i wasnt invited.
as usual.
I'll try both options.
but thank you Tafara & Hilary
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Post by shotatlove on Jul 9, 2008 12:08:47 GMT -5
I'd ditch them. But that's just my opinion. =P
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Post by RiNtakase on Jul 10, 2008 9:58:01 GMT -5
I guess all you could do is try your best ?
Friendship needs time to build up and takes time to maintain it well (:
You can't force a friendship but you can make one (:
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